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Apr 2Liked by Nobuhle N Nyoni

“ I am guilty of weaponising my boundaries by not allowing the next person a chance to understand or learn my triggers.”

I am guilty of this. We are not always the victim, we need to re-evaluate ourselves and learn to have difficult conversations with those in our life. From there, then we decide whether or not we will be able to continue being friends or do we need to our separate ways

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And that's on FACTS! I have had to let go of people who are always the victims in their stories. Just how? It's a big red flag to me especially if the individual never takes responsibility for their actions.

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Your writing is always so thoughtful and incisively relevant! A wonderful read!

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Thank you so much! ❤️

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Hah! ✋🏾

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✋🏾 yes, I will hold your hand through it. 😂

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